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Originally Posted by dissentowner
Anyhow we talked, it is done. I told them on the phone how I felt, they accused me of trying to "guilt" them into doing something they don't want to do. F them, I am done with them.
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wait, going for coffee is something that you're "guilting" them into doing?
While I've been posting from the devil's advocate position, your answers were good. It sounds like walking away isn't a bad idea.
That doesn't mean you have to tell them off, but the phone calls, the coffee, everything stops and move on.
Good luck.
This community is very supportive. If you ever need anything I can do (I have no idea what that could be from across the country) but by all means send me a PM.
Realistically, moving out of the basement apartment of the house you shared with your ex is also a good move.
My only advice from this point is to try and not be angry. At your sister, brother-in-law, ex, parents, etc. The anger only hurts you. Move on, focus on the things that bring joy in your life, your fiance, children, the Flames... well maybe not the Flames but Calgary Puck.