It seems that you're probably doing the right thing by walking away from them. I don't know if this all qualifies as neutral advice though when only hearing your side of the story though. Seems like 95% of the time if people tell their side of the story, then people will agree with the conclusion they come up with. I have an ex wife who drives me crazy with that kind of thing though. I always get the "I talked to all my friends about what you did, and they all think you are just a big jerk who won't even let me see my own kids during your week". But I know she left out the part where she broke into the house, scaring the kids, calling my girlfriend a whore, all because it took me more than 5 minutes to answer a text. But I know getting that affirmation from others made her believe in the head she was right anyway.
I don't know, they could all be sociopathetic #######s, but there are usually two sides to all these stories, and you just have to do what you think is right.
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