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Originally Posted by Devils'Advocate
Seriously?
If someone publicly called on your friend to step down as mayor of a large city for their drug use, alcoholism and other destructive behaviours….. you would put them in their place?
I think if Jim Flaherty was really a friend *HE* would be the one telling Rob Ford to step down as mayor!
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The specific situation is hard to comprehend (my friend is a drunk/addict and a national tragedy in a position of political power) but in general I appreciate the macro here, a person doing his best to support a friend in need despite the heavy price of doing so.
Like I said, it's a particularly awkward situation because everyone is involved in public life, but that doesn't negate the responsibility to provide support and understanding. And I highly doubt that the words between Flaherty and Kenney were ever intended to be public, although it would be foolish to think that they wouldn't become known.
I would hope that Flaherty is using his influence as a friend to push Ford towards getting his life together (rehab/counseling, etc) but do you really think that Ford is going to benefit from having his friends publicly cut bait and leave him drifting alone in his misery? That sounds like a sure fire recipe for more antics and negative behavior. I would think that remaining close to Ford provides a greater opportunity to help him than publicly admonishing him and walking away.
To reiterate what I said earlier - I have zero sympathy for Ford at this point. I absolutely believe he should step down (at the very least take an extended leave while he gets help). Please don't confuse my thoughts on Ford with my thoughts on Flaherty. We don't know what Flaherty is doing/saying privately to try and help Ford. I'd be disappointed if his support consists of "Don't worry Rob, you're a swell guy, keep up the good work" but I simply can't fathom that being the case.