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Originally Posted by pylon
I think easy, anonymous access to online pron actually helps relationships. You can find relief from pretty much any ridiculous fetish you might have that you are not getting access to at home, without having to seek it out IRL and commit adultery.
I think her views on this might be a little backwards, in todays day and age.
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Hmmm, I could see that going both ways. If you're keeping too much from your partner it's not good for either of you. Also, access to online material could encourage cheating and in some respects may be cheating as well.
I get what your saying if it's more of a lingering curiosity, or something that one doesn't spend too much time doing, but there are so many stories of things like this becoming an obsession too. Which does seem to happen more when you're trying to keep it hidden.
As for this specific case, there's obviously some unwarranted jealousy problems, but in many other cases, hiding sexual things on the internet isn't very healthy.
The best thing would be to find someone who you are compatible with sexually, whether you're vanilla or kinky. Yes, that can be difficult, but so is finding a person with similar interests or goals in other things.