Some women (and guys too, for that matter) are going to be more or less insecure than others, and I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with someone who's insecure. It's that in your girlfriend's case, the insecurity manifests itself in screaming and accusations. I'd say that dealing with issues by escalating conflict is an extreme warning sign; I've been in that sort of relationship where I (very much a low-conflict personality) was dating someone who felt that conflict was the natural way of dealing with things. I ended up in the business of appeasement on a daily basis, and I was generally miserable. Once I got out of the relationship, I could only shake my head that I put up with it for as long as I did.
If this is a woman who's generally insecure but usually deals with it well, but for whatever reason reached her breaking point over Katy Perry, that's one thing; but if this is typically how she deals with issues in your relationship and you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells, then it's a serious problem and a situation that I'd try to get out of.
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