Sounds like she is pretty young, or maybe she was raised Catholic or in a puritan sort of religion where sex is looked upon as dirty. If I were you, I'd ask her to join you in watching a good porn movie (I assume you're having sex), and see what she thinks. If she is totally close minded about it, get rid of her. Life is way too short to have a partner who is close minded when it comes to new ways to have sex.
If I found my hubby watching porn, I wouldn't be upset that he was watching it, but more upset that he didn't ask me to join him. See my point? It won't hurt to ask. It's the perfect time in fact. You don't want to be living with or married to someone who is going to inflict guilt upon you for normal sexual desires. That's no way to live, not healthy for you or her.
Good luck!
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