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Originally Posted by evman150
In my experience it is people who have cheated or are cheating who have the worst insecurity/jealousy issues. Like the town bicycle story above, it is reasonably likely that this girl is cheating on you, or has in the past. People have the tendency to project their own behaviours, and think you are a deviant just like they are.
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This was my thinking. There's a good chance she's either a) been cheated on, or b) has cheated, with the same result being she knows its possible to happen. Hence the insecurity. (or she's just out of her mind)
Either way a talk is definitely needed, especially if it keeps happening. Communication is key. Just a lay everything out on the table, "Why do you feel this way" "I can't handle this stuff anymore, it needs to change" type discussion. If you don't like the way the talk plays out, time to get out before you get in any deeper. Only going to get more difficult the longer you stay, and not confront the underlying issues there.