If you think she's worth it, offer to go to counselling with her..
I had a friend (serious, haha) who was in the same situation where if they went to the gym together he'd get accused of staring, no matter what. That presented a few problems.. first off it's pretty hard not to do. Secondly, he claims he wasn't even, there are sometimes only so many directions a person can look. Lastly, it opened up a whole other dimension of trust issues.
Counselling was his only way out. Have to have a third party convince them that they are 'wrong' or at least unreasonable. Convincing her yourself will prove impossible.
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