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Posting under another username becuase this is some embarrassing ####. Need some input on how to deal with this issue.

I recently got screamed at for having the Katy Perry concert movie downloaded. Didn't even watch it but I sure got hell. "The only reason you have this is to lust after her", "I thought you didn't like women with caked on makeup", "Is this the kind of woman you have fantasies about?", "This is completely disrespectful to me". I got dressed down.

What porn I have ammonts to maybe 10 Playboy magazines from the 90s, half a dozen VHS tapes and a folder on my computer with about 50 files. Pretty average when compared to friends and guys I know.

This is a grown woman, not a teenager. I've been aware that she's sensitive and insecure but this is over the top. I'd throw away the porn becauase I really don't care about it but I can't walk on eggshells wondering if a movie or video by a female singer is inappropriate but she is adamant that I am being very disrespectful to her.

My idea of disrespectful is cheating, lying, insisting on watching porn even if she's not into it. Have not even come close to that.

She would lose it if she saw the Hot Chicks thread.

How far have you gone to appease your woman? Been together 2 years, do not live together. I need some perspective.