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Originally Posted by fotze
These arguments were cut down drastically when my wife finally met a bunch of good friends/other mothers through my kid school. The argument of 'why do you need to spend time with them' absolutely vanishes when she goes out with her girlfriends for dinners, etc the same way. I love when she goes out for the night or away for a weekend.
I think a lot of time (have seen with friends situations) 'why do you hate to spend time with me' actually means 'why don't I have friends like you do'.
.....and before the misogyny angle comesa out, this is a spouse/spoiuse problem, not so much sex related.
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I have been trying to get this going for years and I hope having a baby finally does it. I hang out with the guys every Tuesday and always feel guilty that there isn't a night that she gets to take off a week.