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Originally Posted by pylon
Not to be contrary for the hell of it, but I dated a girl a few years back that had hardcore rape fantasies, and no definitely meant yes. It isn't that cut and dry.
Probably TMI, but that 'fetish' certainly exists.
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It absolutely does, and there's a reason why BDSM is a fetish as well. But when done properly, there is plenty of discussion beforehand, there are safe words and things of that nature. The discussion is had before any of the acts begin, and thus consent HAS been given for future reference, with an out clause (safe word, etc) so if he/she changes his/her mind, that consent can be rescinded if he/she feels unsafe.
That kind of fantasy, in a healthy relationship, is a fully different situation.