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Originally Posted by handgroen
i voted that i had been, but to be fair, in my case it was an ex-girlfriend of a year or so saying she would claim rape if i broke up with her, there was no specific instance at all.She didn't go through with it and i was never accused, but the issue arose for me and so i voted yes.
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Telling someone that I'm going to rape them isn't as bad as actually raping them, but I still think it's abusive and harmful to the person.
In your case being threatened with false accusation of rape isn't as bad as being falsely accused of rape, but it's still abusive and harmful, so maybe counts as 1/2 a vote or something.
How crazy is that though... taking an action that would destroy any hope of having a relationship to try and save a relationship?? That doesn't make any sense on any level.