[Bring_Back_Shantz]

Originally Posted by FanIn80

Not always. Sometimes, based on the sensitivity of the issue, it's important to indicate your intentions prior to making your statement, or asking your question. It always take two people to offend someone: the saying something, and the person hearing it.

In this case, the guy is merely wondering how a man can be sexually attracted to another man. He's not disrespectful, and he's not being a jackass about it. He's being honest. It's an honest reaction. You can't just demand that he accept it without answering his questions.

Acceptance comes from understanding, not ignoring.

Okay, so would it be acceptable for me to tweet:
I don't have anything against black people, I just don't understand how they can have sex with black women. I mean do they not notice all the hot white chicks around?