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Originally Posted by afc wimbledon
If you read your own quotes carefully you will realise they are both specifically talking about male on male sexual assault
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And if you'd actually followed the link to you know, kind of make sure you actually know what you're talking about, you'd realize that the website covers assault by males and females:
MYTH: Guys can't be sexually assaulted by women.
REALITY: Women can and do sexually abuse and assault men, but it rarely gets reported by the survivor. If you include emotional blackmail as a way of forcing a guy to submit to sexual assault, then the number of crimes greatly increases. Sexual assault of a guy by a female does not have to involve penile penetration; a female attacker can use sex toys or other foreign objects on an unwilling male. It's also not uncommon for males to experience involuntary erections during a sexual assault.
MYTH: Getting an erection or ejaculating during a sexual assault means the survivor "really wanted it" or even consented.
REALITY: This myth causes major issues of guilt and confusion for all male survivors. Physical stimulation can cause an erection whether the recipient wants it to happen or not. Pressure in the prostate gland can cause the same reaction. Having an erection or ejaculation is a normal, involuntary physiological response, and does not automatically equate with arousal -- or with consent. A male survivor may be bewildered or confused about his physiological response during the event, or may feel guilt or shame, and may therefore be inclined not to report it.
MYTH: If the perpetrator is a woman, a boy or teenager should consider himself to have been "initiated" into the exciting world of sex.
REALITY: No matter who provokes it -- a relative, babysitter, teacher, boss or other woman in a position of power or authority over a young male -- that kind of sexual experience is all about control and domination, not gratification and pleasure. Premature or forced sex causes confusion, anger, depression and other major psychological problems. To be used as a sexual object by a more powerful person is always abusive and traumatizing.
That's okay though. Go right on believing its not a big deal for guys.
The guy was probably asking for it anyway, getting in a vehicle with 4 women. He's to blame too.