[Weiser Wonder]

Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

Anyone else think that she sounds incredibly self centered and uncompromising?

The whole my career, my country home, to have my kids now and you need to change your ways and do what I say to save this relationship.

Its up to you on whether this is worth saving, but her motives aren't about country living and her career.

She wants to get you away from your friends and your family

She wants you to change your lifestyle for her.

She isn't willing to look at communities around Calgary that might meet her needs, probably because she has her friends and her family there.

This doesn't exactly sound like an even relationship built around mutual understanding and respect and compromise and communication and all of that junk.

If this story line was being played out on the Jerry Springer show some really fat chick would stand up in her flip flops and skin tight lycra pants and tell you "That you needs to get some respect for yourself"

If you change your lifestyle and move there you need to be careful, because her next step is to completely cut off you from your friends and family.

Her next step is to get knocked up so she has ultimate control over you.

You need to ask her some serious questions, because the more I look at this thing, the less it is about location and the more it is about control and establishing dominance.

Not to say that dominance by a hot chick isn't good, but usually you only do that once a month and you pay for that action and return to your normal life.

You need to understand what her goals are and decide if you want to be a part of it. She's not respecting your life and your needs.

A 2 day a week job in Wetaskawin or whatever it is in a field that everyone is probably hiring is an awful skinny reason for you to uproot and completely change your life.

She's either selfish, self centered or incredibly cagey.

The question has to be around what you want and what your willing to give up to make it work and if its worth it over the long term?

If you're willing to lick the boot to make it work, then so be it, but you'd better be sure.

...and this is why you never ask for dating advice on the internet.