There is no law against moving twice. You can try one option and then decide again.
Also, if you can't decide now, you can do nothing and see how you feel about it a little later. One of you might feel different a month or two from now. I've learned from life that many things that felt terribly important at one time look ridiculously trivial later on.
If both of these options are impossible, then I think you're pretty much done.
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