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Originally Posted by Hi-Psi
Hey guys,
I have a question for you guys to discuss and provide input for. My GF and I have been together 4.5 years and we are getting to a crossroads and unsure how to proceed.
She feels that I'm being selfish by not compromising and moving to Red Deer but I honestly just can't see what's in that move for me other than being closer to her. While that is important to me, my friends are also very important . . .
Jason
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You're valuing your friends more than you value her.
She values a two day a week job more than she values you.
You used to live together, then you made a conscious decision to live apart.
Sounds like youve already passed the crossroads part . . .
Just saying.
Mrs. Cowperson and I married in Northern Alberta, dead centre in the middle of her family and friends. Two years later, I moved to the Calgary area for a new career with the plan she would follow when her contract expired up north. It took 22 months and lots of 6.5 hour drives for both of us, but she eventually showed up and it's been 26 years later. Nowadays, she wouldn't live anywhere else.
Friends come and go and there are always new ones to be made. Time passes. You build a new life.
Not sure if that helps or not.
Cowperson