The fact that you are asking this question after dating her for 4.5 years tells me that there is a problem already, and you are looking for reasons to not move out there with her.
The fact that she is using what is basically a part time job 2 days on 4 off tells me that its not about her career.
Maybe the best answer is that the two of you need to take a break and decide how important each of you is to the other.
No jokes here.
But if you are in love, then a town is a town and a city is a city and location does not matter.
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Look on my Works, ye Mighty, and despair!
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