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Originally Posted by pylon
The two AMAZING and stunningly beautiful women in my life (one in my mid 20's the other in my early 30's), that I could be married to had I not been such a party animal bachelor D-bag, and realized they were the best things that have ever happened to me. The were asking me to pop the question for gods sake. Loved my family, dug my friends..... etc.
Now at 38 years old, and no true prospects, I feel I am relegated to childless, lonely bachelorhood and dating broken, worn out, used hard put away wet, 30 somethings, that are single for reasons that are obvious 3 minutes into a date. Basically the same trashy women that lured me away from the ones I should be with... but now with a couple hundred thousand miles on the odometer, a slipping clutch, and a big brown rust hole forming in the trunk. (pun intended)
I suppose the same now can be said of myself, but I let 2 near perfect women, slip through my fingertips. Don't let this happen to you.
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I just want to point out that I'm 32 and the reason I was single this long is the long list of losers I went out with, not that I, myself was a loser. The fact that I remained single and childless this long is not because of a flaw in myself, rather because I'm too smart to get knocked up and put up with just anyone willing to put up with me. Not all 30 something women are single for reasons that are obvious within 3 minutes; some of them were just like the girls you were lured away from.... trying to teach a grown man how to grow up and be a man and him unwilling to man up.
So don't give up. Someone else out there just let an amazing, beautiful woman slip through their fingertips and maybe that's the girl you're gonna snatch up...