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Originally Posted by Cole436
I would talk to her about it. Not in a confronting, aggressive way, but in a way which still makes the conversation safe. Something along the lines of "I'm not saying this to attack you, or your character. This issue is causing me problems, and I want us to sit down and talk about it. I'd like you to know I'm not coming from a place of anger or judgement, but understanding. As I want to solve this problem constructively, together ". Especially now since you've opened up a can of worms.
A great resource is the book "Crucial Conversations". It definitely helped get through challenging issues with people in my life.
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Life's too short to read books when you know what to do instinctively.
Look her square in the eyes and tell her that if she takes credit for your work again then you will frack up her poop, then pull out a switch blade and carve her initials into your arm, then look her in the eyes again and whisper "welcome to the club"
Then walk out like a boss.