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Cole436 · 02-14-2013, 04:10 PM

I would talk to her about it. Not in a confronting, aggressive way, but in a way which still makes the conversation safe. Something along the lines of "I'm not saying this to attack you, or your character. This issue is causing me problems, and I want us to sit down and talk about it. I'd like you to know I'm not coming from a place of anger or judgement, but understanding. As I want to solve this problem constructively, together ". Especially now since you've opened up a can of worms.

A great resource is the book "Crucial Conversations". It definitely helped get through challenging issues with people in my life.

02-14-2013, 04:10 PM	#31
Cole436 First Line Centre Join Date: Dec 2009 Exp:	I would talk to her about it. Not in a confronting, aggressive way, but in a way which still makes the conversation safe. Something along the lines of "I'm not saying this to attack you, or your character. This issue is causing me problems, and I want us to sit down and talk about it. I'd like you to know I'm not coming from a place of anger or judgement, but understanding. As I want to solve this problem constructively, together ". Especially now since you've opened up a can of worms. A great resource is the book "Crucial Conversations". It definitely helped get through challenging issues with people in my life. __________________ Last edited by Cole436; 02-14-2013 at 04:14 PM.