To the OP - the second one actually sounds quite normal. Marriage is hard, they are still in the adjustment period. Often the first year or two after you get married are the toughest. They may be fighting, but at least they are communicating in some way. I honestly wouldn't be too worried about them yet.
As for the first one - I know most people owul say to leave it alone, but I think you maybe need to say something, to give him the courage to at least talk to her about how her relationship with this guy makes him feel. To me - this is not a normal phase in a marriage. People don't go out to clubs and meet and befriend random strangers of the opposite sex just for the sake of making friends. This would be the marriage I would be worried about.
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