Your friends are not alone. Lots of people get married just for the sake of getting married. I use to be married and I got married cause apparently it was the right thing to do. Everyone was happy about it from family to friends, etc. Everyone but me when I look back on it. Am I happier now, I would think so, but I'm not there yet. I struggle on a daily basis trying to raise a son alone. I have my moments of weakness where I feel like I wish I had someone around the house with me. But I'm not just gonna settle I did that and it ended bad. If I die alone so be it. I don't think I will because I don't have an issue meeting girls. The issue I have is meeting non pyscho ones at this point.
I work with lots of people that I feel there marriages will fail. When the wives and husbands are out with me and my friends till 2 in the morning. They seem to have more fun and after a whole bunch of drinks the truth comes out. Some feel they won't make it forever, others say other things. It's quite sad but society has pushed us so hard to meet one person and share the rest of our lives with them and to raise that family with a white fence. Well it doesn't happen almost 60% of marriages fail. And with women becoming more dominant in the work force yearly I think that number will only rise. There is just way to much temptation around!
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