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Old 11-01-2012, 07:40 AM   #114
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Originally Posted by Fluffy Bunnies View Post
That thought actually never crossed my mind. Thanks for pointing that out.

In all seriousness OP, my original point still stands. If your wife wont stand up for you I would seriously reconsider the marriage. When you got married you both took an oath to stand by each other, during good times and bad. When a spouse takes up with their parents, or doesnt defend them against baseless accusations and claims, then it disrespects you and your union. Based on what youve provided, Id say your wife has some maturing and growing up to do when it comes to her parents and you.

Im fortunate to have pretty decent in laws, but the one time her mother stepped out of line, my wife put her in her place. Im confident my wife comes to my defence, and she confident in me. Its about respect, and being spineless is a lack thereof.
So on one hand, you speak of a sacred oath to stay together through good times and bad, but at the first sign of marital struggle you are recommending he reconsider the marriage? Sound about right?
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