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Originally Posted by Ne7en
A little over 2 yrs ago my girlfriend and I broke up (my choice) for all of 2 months. We got back together and for some reason I thought it would be a good idea to apologize to her sister. I also attempted to reach out and have her contact me by providing her with my contact info. (we have never been close / she lives in another province). In a matter of a few days her husband (my gf's brother-in-law) sends me a message stating that they don't want anything to do with me, and how terrible a person I am (<--clean version). Anyways this caused allot of rifts between me and my gf over the time and made for some awkward family gatherings all while he cowards out and avoids me. Fast forward to the present and suddenly they expect me to forget about it without ever speaking a word to him, and how her sister is still trying to get over me hurting her sister (my gf). I told my gf they are not welcome in my home, am I overactive or acting appropriately? I figure this is a perfect place to get unbiased opinions / advice.
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Well first, you might want to find out what your girlfriend said about you after you broke up. If she painted you in a very bad light, they might have believed you weren't a good person. People tend to exaggerate about another when they get dumped. Second, if her sister is still trying to get over you hurting your sister than that's her problem. Obviously your girlfriend has forgiven you and it's been a long time so it's not as if you keep dumping her and getting back together with her repeatedly. Finally, if they are fairly civil to you then I wouldn't bar them from your home. If they are bad mouthing you and argue with you and things like that then it makes sense, but if not sometimes you have to be the bigger man and just let it roll off your back for the sake of your girlfriend.