I think what separates your case from others is the disability element. I have found that relatives, in this case, can be overprotective, judgemental, and a downright pain in the butt. It usually stems from fear and ignorance. Usually with time and patience the truth becomes known and things return to normal. However, it takes the patience of Job and a lot of belief in yourself. I agree with others that you really have to get your wife onside to make any headway.
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