These are poisonous people OP. You and your wife need to kick these hypocritical deadbeats to the curb. Tell your wife to grow a goddamned spine. You need to start acting like the Alpha, not the pushover Beta Male. These people arent going to change, and you and your wife know it.
Tell your wife this: just because you are related to them and share their blood doesnt make them good people.
A friend of mine had to learn this prolonged and painful lesson himself with ####ty parents that commited financial fraud on him. It took his wife threatening to leave with his 3 kids before he saw the light and did what needed to be done.
You know this is only the start of a lifetime of hell right? They will only get worse.
Tell your wife to cut the deadweight out. You both will live longer and happier.
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