Why is it okay for inlaws to stop by unannounced? Ask them that. Ask them if its okay for you to just show up an start judging their x y or z.
That is a boundary that must be respected if your inlaws will ever accept their daughter is a grown up.
I do agree with some other posters though- you MUST have had some indication of their kookiness before the wedding.
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