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Originally Posted by NuclearFart
I agree with Ericschand. People just dont seem to accept the responsibility that comes with having sex in the first place.
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I suppose it's all about doing things to limit the risks. For example a risk of getting into a car is that you might be involved in a crash. If you get into a car with a friend, and that friend says "don't worry, I'm an excellent driver- I always drive safe." then you have a little reassurance that the likelyhood of getting into a crash are low.
If your friend says that, and then does everything possible to cause a crash, should you just accept that as part of the risk of getting into a car?
We aren't talking about accidental or unplanned pregnancy; which is a risk involved even with birth control. We are talking about the girl saying she is under some form of prevention when she really isn't.
Let's take abortion out of the picture for a moment because that can bring up a whole new set of issues. Let's look at full term delivery and adoption. We will assume there's a waiting list of parents wanting to adopt babies. If the mother wants to keep the baby, but the father wants to adopt it out, why does the choice default to what the mother wants? And why does the father have to pay for her choice?
I know it takes two to tango, but then why is it only one person making the choice as to what happens?