[ericschand]

As a single dad, I have 2 questions.

First, if you get nasty with your gf, aren't you responsible for the outcome?
Whether or not she claims she can't get pregnant, you wanted something,
you got it, oops, now you make your amends with it.

Second, he doesn't want anything to do with the child? Wow. I think
that just sums up his demeanor right there. Even if you didn't want a
son or daughter, you got one, deal with it. Stop running away and
crying about it, you got life to live, and someone to raise.

Seems to me he wants all the fun, but no responsiblity afterwards.
If he didn't want the responsibility, perhaps he should have practiced
abstinance?

"Can you imagine telling your girlfriend that you want to wear a condom even though she is on the pill- because you don't trust her?"

Yes. Not those words, you'll never get any putting it that way,
but yeah, "I don't want kids, so I am using a condom too, just in
case." Further, neither the pill nor a condom are 100%, so you
are still taking a chance. (FWIW, 100% is you getting snipped.
Not her, *you*)

ers

[edited: The web-print version makes it clear that she claimed
health reasons would stop pregnancy. However, my
comments still stand.]