Thanks for all the advice guys, i dont think i made a couple details clear which may make this situation more complicating.
First he does have a job as an EMT on a rig site, but the work is very off and on depending when they need him, hes supposed to go every 2 weeks for 2 weeks on 2 weeks off (a big reason why i moved into this place) however since moving in september first he has been gone a whopping 8 days total.
Secondly, i didnt just move into some random place, I know the guy, he is actually my sisters boyfriend who ive known for some time!! So doing the hot sauce and roofies lol isnt really an option, also confronting him physically is out of the question as he his 230 and i am 150 haha. Again we have no other issues about the living other than this food issue!
Thirdly, I know its easy to say just move out but ive looked at other places and the cheapest i can find by myself is about 600 in a crap hole 1 bed apartment plus utilities. (right now i share a basement suit for 300 with utilities included.) If i move out i risk the same problems or worse with new roomates or pay more than double to live alone. Also i move back to calgary in April as i complete my degree.
Finally, i have even spoken to my sister to see if she could get through to him and well as you can see from the results to no avail.
Sorry i typed this up so late last night was incredibly frustrated and left out these crucial details... any other advice based on these new facts?
Thanks guys
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