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vektor · 10-09-2012, 08:06 PM

1. do not do anything whatsoever to provoke them, payback or self-imposed justice nullifies any legal stance
2. collect evidence
3. talk to the other neighbors in the area
4. find the representative in the constituency and have him/her drop by. Most representatives are reasonable human beings and if they are aware of a family drastically decreasing the living standards of their neighbors they should help.

seek out help and get others in on the cause, some might say "oh she's just whiney" or whatever but ignore that. If someone's quality of life is being destroyed by negligent parents and disrespectful, loud and violent kids there are legal grounds to make it stop. As far as the kids getting beat up I suggest bringing in as many as the neighbors/third parties as possible to make it seem like the co-worker you are trying to help isn't the actionable one. I've dealt with a similar situation and know how bad it can actually effect your quality of life, it starts to consume you to the point you become miserable. The people that ignored her initial claims (parents/cops) probably did so because they are lazy, she should not have to move. Best case is to get some form of bylaw enforcement and make it seem like it came from somebody else because I know people pretty well and if they find out your co-worker did it they will seek vengeance in the form of harassment and property damages.

10-09-2012, 08:06 PM	#6
vektor Lifetime Suspension Join Date: Mar 2012 Exp:	1. do not do anything whatsoever to provoke them, payback or self-imposed justice nullifies any legal stance 2. collect evidence 3. talk to the other neighbors in the area 4. find the representative in the constituency and have him/her drop by. Most representatives are reasonable human beings and if they are aware of a family drastically decreasing the living standards of their neighbors they should help. seek out help and get others in on the cause, some might say "oh she's just whiney" or whatever but ignore that. If someone's quality of life is being destroyed by negligent parents and disrespectful, loud and violent kids there are legal grounds to make it stop. As far as the kids getting beat up I suggest bringing in as many as the neighbors/third parties as possible to make it seem like the co-worker you are trying to help isn't the actionable one. I've dealt with a similar situation and know how bad it can actually effect your quality of life, it starts to consume you to the point you become miserable. The people that ignored her initial claims (parents/cops) probably did so because they are lazy, she should not have to move. Best case is to get some form of bylaw enforcement and make it seem like it came from somebody else because I know people pretty well and if they find out your co-worker did it they will seek vengeance in the form of harassment and property damages. Last edited by vektor; 10-09-2012 at 08:09 PM.