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Originally Posted by rubecube
Nah, I think it's something you choose through your own actions/inaction. Guys who end up in the friend zone usually end up there because they don't have the confidence to make a play for the girl, so they settle for something platonic and hope the girl will leave an opening or make the first move.
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It's something you choose in the sense you have the ability to never speak to someone again. However, young dudes tend to:
1) have fewer options available; and
2) follow hot girls around like puppy dogs.
Also, a lot of girls really take advantage of situations. The whole friend zone thing really shouldn't happen past your very early 20s, although I see guys continue to get sucked into the trap. I had one friend who even went as far as to buy Vegas vacation, computers, etc..