My major problem with the friend zone is that it implies you aren't actually interested in being a friend to that person. Having friends that you have crushes on, on the other hand, is common and natural. It's probably the way most relationships start.
If someone is using you in a friendship, that's another story. You just need to drop that person. With the important caveat that "using" does not mean asking for emotional support, help with moving, talking about relationships etc as that's part of any friendship as long as there is reciprocation.
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As you can see, I'm completely ridiculous.
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