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Originally Posted by photon
We went through a whole parenting course at one point because of the issues we were having (which ended up not being very effective after finding out he had Aspergers, and then finding out what kinds of strategies do actually work since consequences and that kind of thing just don't work).
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As someone who works with kids-teens-young adults on the spectrum... it really difficult to find strategies that consistently work. And there are so many individual differences among the people that we work with, even if one method works for one, it doesn't work for another. There were even cases where one strategy worked one time, but doesn't work the next with the same person. But I do agree that 9/10 times, having consequences doesn't work with most of them.