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Originally Posted by RougeUnderoos
Thanks, Dr. Webster.
How about the word "loser" then? That better?
A guy who knows he has a kid and refuses to even send a check is a "loser".
If I meet a woman today, tell her I don't want kids, get her pregnant, and then claim no responsibility for that kid, I'm a loser.
If I tell her to get an abortion and that I want no responsibility and follow up on that promise, I'm still a loser.
Maybe you didn't want the kid, you hate his mom, you turned Coke to Pepsi... it's your kid and he/she is out there. If you don't make even the minimum contribution to raising your own children, you are a loser.
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The thing that blows me away is the whole concept of making the woman raise her kid without financial assistance to "teach her some responsibility." Children aren't sex education tools, they're human beings. They don't subsist on "I told you so's" and comeuppances.