Ha ha. Someone's been at the Belgian beer bar til 3AM methinks...
I'm not quite sure I understand this either, so I'll try to cover all the bases here.
In considering
her financial worth, I wouldn't give it a second thought: it would offend what my gf calls my "heteronormative masculine" values (i.e. I don't like the idea being a man-ho who doesn't "stand on his own two feet").
In considering
my financial worth, again, I probably wouldn't give it much thought, with the proviso that I would be vigilantly guarding against gold-digging in any relationship I entered. Or visa-digging, or whatever.
In terms of
exploiting my own financial worth in pursuing a relationship, it's a card I'd be hesitant to play because, again, I'd be concerned I was just getting involved with a gold-digger.
So, basically, I'd have no problem dating a rich chick, but wouldn't rate her wealth as a major factor in my attraction to her, and I wouldn't exploit my wealth to try to pursue a woman who considered it to be that important a factor in her relationship with me.
Good thing I'm poor. Keeps things simple
