Quote:
Originally Posted by REDVAN
Oh, and the last thing- if you change just to attract someone, and that's not really the REAL you, then what will you do on the second date? I highly suggest taking it easy and being yourself. If/when you find a relationship, that's the only way it will succeed.
|
I don't know about this...
What if the "real you" is simply unattractive?
This is not to say that you should lie or put on a complete act, but if someone has some unattractive traits that they are broadcasting, I don't think there is any harm in identifying those traits, and putting the effort in to change those things (eg: bad body language, needy behavior etc.).