Oh and for the master of the friends zone thing...If every girl you try and get romantically involved with puts you in the friends zone that is probably because you are overly caring and sweet...You are trying to force them to be with you by trying to be prince charming.
Not that being nice and caring is a bad thing but there is a fine line between being the sweet and senstive guy that a girl wants and being the hopeless puppy that girls come crying to when it doesn't work out with another guy.
You're probably easy for them to be around, too emotionally available for them when ever they need it. You are focused on trying to make them happy and not worried about your feelings. You are one step above that gay friend they always wanted.
It's time to man up. You have to be a little more selfish and stop being a pushover, give them an inch and they take a mile. If you are interested in a girl and she only wants to be friends then fine, but leave it as friends...Don't think that if you do all this nice stuff for her and be her whipping boy that she will change her mind and date you. Either be actual friends with her or tell her that being friends won't work out and cut ties, it will be better for you in the end.
Last edited by Hockeyguy15; 05-15-2012 at 09:03 AM.
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