I went through this argument with a feminist I was dating. (Rush would have a stronger term)
I lived through it. I said (and still think) cut him off at 1 latest. I lost. She wanted to go as long as he wanted it! But I prevented her from doing that, which her hippie books told her was a good idea.
At that point it's not about nourishment and love (and safety?), it's about independence, and learning. Gotta drop to fly.
She had strong behavioral issues after that FWIW. Which I also got to be the 'nice guy' about cause 'she just couldn't take it anymore'.
CUT THE CORD PLEASE! Every animal does it. For the good of their children.
Last edited by Daradon; 05-11-2012 at 12:52 PM.
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