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Originally Posted by transplant99
5 years ago my wifes lifelong best friend stayed with us while she was renovating her house for 3 weeks...day after day she came back in time for supper and whatever else the two of them were planning...til one night she didnt and we went to check on her.
We found her at the end of a rope.
Simply the most devastated i have ever seen another human being when i saw my wifes eyes afterwards.
So dont ever EVER suggest that "someone would have noticed" because i lived it man....and there was absolutely no sign that anything that drastic was about to occur.
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had a good friend last year who lost his Dad the same way. Noboby knew he was suffering from severe depression after being retired only 2 months.
His wife found him in the basement. That day ripped the family apart. Very sad he was such a cheerful guy too. Watching Seau's mother on TV reminded me so much of that whole tragedy.
My friend tells me that besides the memories and dates that everytime in the news this occurs he relives that nightmare all over again.
Thoughts and prayers to anyone on CP that has had to deal with this same kind of loss.