I always tip better when the waiter brings me a refill without my asking for it. In my younger days they would occasionally do this with beer which was great having them see that your beer is almost empty and bringing another one over. When you are slowing down you just tell the waiter that this is the last one.
I like to think that my tipping extra goes a lot further to reward positive behaviour than your under tipping to punish bad behaviour and since we are trying to achieve opposite goals that will put my cause ahead in the long run.
Also, if you like this forum I think you should check out some of the other threads that we have going. Specifically, 'What do you do for a living?' and 'What's your "Claim to Fame"?'
Both good threads that I think you could contribute to as well.
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