Pylon,
I don't know you personally but my wife's family, her parents, have had to endure the death of one of their sons, and we all tried to make sure we were there for his children. Your words have struck a nerve with me today, and got me choked up.
When my brother in law died, it seemed to age my wife's parents 10 years over night, and I can't imagine how they could endure something like this again. It would be compounded, snow balling, I am sure because you are now reliving the loss of your sister as well. I am very sorry.
Having said that, it is clear to me your parents must have a great deal of internal strength because despite this adversity they made it possible for your nephew to flourish to this point. It is also clear to me they have passed their strength and values on to you, your words here in this thread tell me that. I know this is of little comfort now, but it is a blessing that you are able to help your parents carry a terrible burden now.
My condolences are sincerely given.
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