Thanks boys....This was extremely helpful...
Normally I get all worked up and react instead of simply calmly looking at the situation and realizing that it's not worth it. That's why I needed a little CP advice. It was so tempting to email this thing to everyone I knew, but that would just cause more effort than I really want to spend on something that clearly just isn't worth it.
We talked tonight on the phone and she flat out tried to tell me it's not what it looked like (that's original) and that she loved me and wanted to see me tonight. I did not oblige. I told her I didn't want to see her, didn't want to have anything to do with her, and granted her wish to date as many men as possible all at once.
It's funny when you put someone on a pedestal and worship their every move and all of a sudden that crashes down to earth and you see them for who they really are. I get who she really is tonight, only wish I could have seen that sooner.
She wanted to get together and talk and I sort of said to her why would I want to do that? She pulled all the cute voices, tears, blah blah blah and I just shrugged it off and thought there's no point in going any further when the damage and the decision has been done.
Onwards and upwards....
Thanks again....
To quote Reggie:
"HA HA
Stupid Girl."
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