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Originally Posted by SeeGeeWhy
Is it gold digging if a 24 year old marries an "established" 36 year old so she can take the financial and career risks in order to start a family while she is young and healthy enough to do so? I don't think so, I think it's smart actually. This reality of imablanced emotional intelligence/maturity, wealth, "life options", confused cultural norms, etc makes developing healthy relationships within your age group very difficult.
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Yeah, why should women look for other qualities beyond simple material wealth
...Obviously it's going to be a balance. However, there are a lot of women who'd rather date a jerk making 100k, than a nice guy making 50-60k. That is what a gold digger is.
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Originally Posted by SeeGeeWhy
As an aside, there are a lot of people in this thread that come off as bitter, as if they expect the opposite sex to never make any mistakes in life, or that they should not be expected to want the best for themselves yet they forgive themselves for the same two things... its ok to be single people. Odd thread.
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Let's keep in mind this thread was started from a statement from a women complaining about her own ability to find men worth dating.