If you have a sense of humour, enough self esteem that it doesn't worry you to get shoot down now and then, can make a reasonable attempt at dancing and own a decent jacket and pants its pretty much shooting fish in a barrel.
The trouble with N American men is they can't/won't dance, they seem scared ####less of talking to women and seem to think runners are acceptable footwear in a club.
We expect women to spend hours getting ready to go out for us to be interested but then most guys here can barely bother to change out of their sweat pants when they go out.
I got hit on by a girl half my age (in fun I'm sure) at a club in Seattle because, as she put it, I was the best dressed guy in the room, I am 50 and was wearing a pair of 501's, a shirt and jacket and a pair of Italian loafers, it would barely be passable to go shopping in in most of europe, when I looked around at the crowd though she was right, it was a room full of 25 ot 35 year old guys wearing scruffy jeans and t shirts.
Last edited by afc wimbledon; 01-08-2012 at 09:25 PM.
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