One thing I learned in my divorce was that the house/cars/furniture didn't matter. I just wanted OUT and wanted my kids OUT, so I left. I probably gave up a lot of 'things' but the overall goal was achieved and although it took a little time to get things ironed out, my kids grew up in a much better situation than they would have had I stayed with my ex husband. It wasn't easy being a single mom for a awhile- but the old saying of 'Why do people get divorced? Because it's worth it' is so true in my case.
Good luck hon ((hugs)).
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