Before I had kids, I thought of having to make big long speeches to them, about how they should act, live etc. But once I had them, I realized that all I had to do was answer their questions. So be knowledgeable enough about yourself, as it applies to your own values and beliefs, to be able to guide them along what you consider to be the right path to living a good life. You should be aware that you are their role model, particularly in the early years.
I think normally, once you see them, the natural instincts kick in to love, protect and nurture them, to the best of your ability.
I also think you should keep in mind that, when you get old, your kids will be your main support system. So make sure you give them enough of your time, love and support while they are growing up, and it will return to you in spades. I know this from experience.
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