I think consensus is you pay to cover your plate. I say pay what you feel you can afford.
If they don't like it, TS! They are the ones that decided to throw themselves a lavish affair that they couldn't afford. I mean, honestly, it's considered tacky to give less than say $100, but inviting a ton of people to your wedding you barely like and shaking them down at the entrance and then complaining they didn't give enough to cover the costs of the affair you claim is all about showcasing your love and not showboating, isn't tacky? Bully to that.
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