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Originally Posted by icecube
What about fathers who have children with several different women?
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My view point on this is that, as long as parent is still there to support the child in terms of development, and is providing the kid with the proper amount of financial aid required to raise a child they can have as many as they want. What irks me is when people have children and then try to pretend they do not exist, or the parents themselves are already in a pretty terrible situation and can't provide the necessary things that a kid would need to grow up into a functioning member of society. Simply put, if you can't provide for the child, don't have one.
In the case of the OP, I would say that she has a hard time judging her relationships with men and probably could have been a lot more cautious. But if she is out there working hard, and still raising the children and giving them all the love and attention they deserve then good on her. As long as she isn't sitting around and expecting her former partners to pay for the childrens needs, and then spending said money on her self for really dumb reasons (ex. plastic surgery), then I have nothing against her. However, because she has so many kids, her plans for the weekend better be to spend as much time with them as possible, and not to dump them with her parents as she goes out and parties. If she is one of those girls that's still into hardcore partying then any respect she may have garnered would go straight out the window.
Now on a less serious note...this topic is clearly key vs. lock type logic. A key that can open any lock is pretty sweet, right? On the other hand, a lock that opens to any key...well that's just not a very good lock is it?